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Lisa update (21 Weeks)

So here’s another shot i think right before going to Cerritos Mall.  Only a few months in, no cramps or pains yet, just pill poppin’  queasy cheesiness.  A little bump.  Not enough for people to comment on because its at that in-between stage of  being pregnant, or just getting really fat.

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Drum roll please……

So this is it. The day we find out if it’s a boooooy or girrrrrrl!!  Very interesting day, and I’ll tell you why.  So we’re going through the whole sonogram process again checking the baby’s size, heart and movements.  Yeah, yeah, yeah okay so i just wanted to say  “come on lady just get to the point!”  But anyway, as she moved into the lower Netherlands of the baby, i begin to stare hard, staring, trying to focus, then finally, i friggen see nothing.  So i just look at the doctor, “weeeell?”  All this while Lisa just lays there saying nothing.  No expression.  Any guy would be happy with a boy,  as  were the case with me, but i somewhat was convinced due to that fact of Lisa’s boasting of how a girl would be that much better and sweeter, swayed my intentions of somewhat wanting a girl a little more.  Anyway, i’m still staring at the doctor, then at the screen, then back at the doctor, then she speaks  “Okay so what you’re having is a ……… …… .. GIRL!  Hearing the news I became sooooo happy, giddy, and couldn’t keep still. “A girl? Really? A girl? Yeeeeeees!” Okay, so all this time i was assuming that Lisa and I were on the same page and slightly leaning toward wanting to have a girl.  But as I am celebrating I look over to her to expect a somewhat similar reaction, but, she just has no enthusiasm at all and is like ” a girl? really? a girl?

Me –  “you didn’t want a girl this whole time?”

Lisa –  “No, i did…  But i guess deep down i REALLY wanted a boy.  But, i am still happy. 🙂 ”

Me – “um yeeeeah okay, interesting… lol”

Lisa – “are you sure it’s a girl??”, “Can you check again??”

Kris – “oooooh my,  well hopefully it’s just a boy with a non existent penis.”

So now we’re in deep thought of the news and also begin to visualize the future of our child as a girl.  All in all it was an exciting, memorable aannnd interesting 🙂 experience that I’ll never forget.  I can’t wait to see HER!